How does one succeed in life?

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Can a 40-year-old date a 20-year-old?

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

What is the difference between anxiety and depressive neurosis?

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Why is my vagina swollen, it’s very itchy. I had sex we used protection, but day after it felt like my insides had a heartbeat as well as itching, the pulsing has went away but it is still itchy and my discharge is yellow, i'm 15, what could it be?

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

The Democrats’ candidate, Kamala, is a total loser, while our candidate, Trump, is a legendary hero and a living god. Are you ready to lose BIG Democrats?

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Why does my sister want to have sex with me? What should I do?

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Hangs out with loser friends.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

If Russia needs the resources to fund the war in Ukraine, why doesn’t it throw open its doors to visa free western tourism? Enough people would be interested, & it would start to get some hard currency as €, CHF, £, SEK, $, JPY in the tills at shops.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Why is Prince Harry being fired by BetterUp CEO Alexi Robichaux, and what role did Marc Benioff’s decision to pull sponsorship play in this?

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

What I need from you?

When I buy a house, do I automatically own all items the previous owner failed to remove from the property?

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Does not procrastinate.

How do I write a character’s physical description without it feeling unnatural and clunky? I’m able to describe their hair and body relatively easily because my writing puts emphasis on small movements and fidgeting, but I can’t describe faces.

Do not set goals—set systems.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Why do so many people like life?

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Why can’t conservatives accept the fact that they are stupid?

Making more friends is a goal.

Ask yourself:

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Have you ever regretted not hitting on a older women?

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

That's it for today.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Procrastinates a lot.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.